

Heated Rivalry
This Heated Rivalry show is honestly really gay, and I don’t mean that as a bad thing at all. I keep reading comments and hot takes about it everywhere, people arguing about what it is or isn’t, and meanwhile I’m just sitting here thinking… it’s actually pretty good. It knows what it’s doing, it leans into it, and let’s be real, the presence of sexy, hot guys definitely doesn’t hurt. Regardless of what everyone keeps saying online, I’m enjoying it. Sometimes a show doesn’t ne
17 hours ago


Close
Christmas is getting really close, and honestly I’m kind of dreading the actual day. I don’t need anything, so whatever I get will be a surprise, but Christmas morning just feels like it’s going to be a repeat of every other year—by myself—with the exception of last year at Melissa’s. And if I’m being honest, I don’t really need to sit around watching my nephews open a million presents anyway. I love the season, the lights, the music, all of it—but the day itself always feels
2 days ago


Cure
I really don’t understand how there still isn’t a cure for cancer at this point. We figured out COVID vaccines and boosters in record time, we have PrEP, and HIV/AIDS is no longer the death sentence it once was. Science can move fast when it wants to. So it’s hard not to feel frustrated and a little cynical, wondering if there’s just too much money wrapped up in treatments and long-term care for a real cure to be the priority. I know cancer is complicated and not just one thi
3 days ago


Hot Italian
I keep seeing ads for Mike’s Hot Italian sub everywhere, and at this point it feels personal.Here ’s the thing: those aren’t even my favorite meats. On paper, it’s not really my sandwich. And yet… every time the ad pops up, I feel this growing, unexplainable need to try it.Do I expect it to change my life? No. Do I still feel compelled to eat it? Absolutely.
4 days ago


I Love LA
I’m not sure what I think about I Love LA on HBO. I have a complicated, on-again off-again relationship with, so in theory this show should be my whole personality. But the show itself? I don’t know. I’m still deciding if it’s charming, trying too hard, or if I just need to give it a few more episodes to settle in. Some moments hit, some don’t, and I keep watching it every Sunday.Has anyone else been watching this on HBO? What do you think? Jury’s still out… but yes, I still
5 days ago


Jinkx and Dela
After spending most of the day in bed, I finally got up, took a shower—or really, a bath—and shaved. I ate something around 5, then was scrolling on my phone when I realized it was Thursday and that the Jinkx and Dela Holiday Show was happening at Balboa Park. On a whim, I threw on some clothes and drove downtown, somehow finding a 30-minute parking spot until 6, which felt wild since San Diego meters now run until 8. I fully expected a ticket, but I was only a block from the
5 days ago


Cleaning Lady
Last night my mom announced that the cleaning lady was coming in the morning, and honestly, I just don’t understand it. This house is never really that messy to begin with, and somehow you have to clean before she comes, which makes absolutely no sense to me. On top of that, I don’t even think she does that great of a job—I can barely tell anything’s been cleaned after she leaves. She also brings her own cleaning products, which might be part of the problem, because I person
5 days ago


House of Gucci
I watched House of Gucci on Netflix and first of all, I had no idea what the story was. None. And honestly? Fascinating. I was completely glued the entire time. Second of all and this is embarrassing but I did not realize that was Lady Gaga until after the movie when I Googled it. I just thought, wow, this actress is really committing to whatever this accent journey is. Turns out it was Gaga the whole time and yes, she was fantastic. What did I learn from this film? Italian
6 days ago


Raising Caines
Okay, can we talk about Raising Cane’s for a second? I know one just opened at CityWalk and I already know the line is going to stretch all the way down to the food court on the other end, with people waiting forever, and I truly don’t understand the hype. I had it once a few years ago when I was DoorDashing and remember thinking… that’s it? It was fine, good even, but life-changing? Did I miss something? Was I tired, emotionally unavailable, in the wrong headspace for chicke
Dec 17


Come On
Almost every day I go to the same gas station and buy a pack of cigarettes, and there is this one thing that drives me absolutely nuts. The same person behind the counter refuses to hand me the cigarettes until the card transaction fully goes through. Like… fully. Approved. Receipt printing. Possibly a confirmation from the universe. I get it. I really do. Rules, theft, liability, all of that. But when you’re standing there staring at the pack you’ve bought a hundred times,
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