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Cabaret
The song Cabaret perfectly mirrors my own approach to life—embracing the mess, the chaos, and the imperfection with a big, defiant grin....
Aug 20, 2024


Long Ago
Back in the day, posting on Facebook was like sending a message to your entire social circle at once. You’d hit “post,” and within...
Aug 19, 2024


Velour
I had the absolute thrill of seeing Velour: A Drag Spectacular from the front row, and let me tell you, it did not disappoint. The show...
Aug 17, 2024


Sandcastles
This morning, I took a trip to Imperial Beach with my mom to check out the sandcastle building event. I guess they’ve scaled it back to...
Aug 16, 2024


Try
No matter how hard I try, it feels like I can never win. Somehow, despite my best efforts, I end up as the villain in my own story,...
Aug 16, 2024
Birthday
Today is my sister's birthday, but instead of her usual big bash, she’s keeping it low-key with burgers at a restaurant and an ice cream...
Aug 14, 2024


Wedding
It's hard to believe that 14 years have passed since I got married at the Madonna Inn, descending that swirly staircase to "Over the...
Aug 14, 2024


Truth
When confronted with the truth, especially about their lies, people—especially narcissists—often react with denial and anger. Their sense...
Aug 14, 2024


Stimming
I recently stumbled upon the concept of stimming, or as I like to call it, “self-stimulatory behavior”—basically, a fancy term for...
Aug 13, 2024


Happy
Robin Williams once said, "I think the people who have experienced the most sadness are the ones who always try their hardest to make...
Aug 12, 2024


Velour Dinner
Yesterday was a rough one—I felt terrible all day, but somehow managed to pull together a pasta sauce and get everything packed up for...
Aug 11, 2024


The Bee
Yesterday turned out to be surprisingly okay. I decided to usher at the Lamb's Players Theatre for Spelling Bee, and it was an absolute...
Aug 9, 2024


Shocking
It's funny how a single comment can send shockwaves across state lines—especially when you've got an Italian family in the mix....
Aug 9, 2024


Truth
They say there are two sides to every story, but actually, there are three: your side, my side, and the truth. Your side comes with your...
Aug 9, 2024


Replaceable
Realizing that everyone is replaceable can be a hard truth to accept. It’s a reminder that no matter how close we are to someone or how...
Aug 8, 2024
Mistake
It's been 10 days since I had surgery to replace all my teeth with fake ones because my natural teeth were practically falling apart. I...
Aug 6, 2024
SpongeBob
The other day, my mom watched the new SpongeBob movie, Saving Bikini Bottom: The Sandy Cheeks Movie, with my nephews. She was totally...
Aug 5, 2024


Italians
The Real Housewives of New Jersey finale did not disappoint. Before “the last supper,” Joe Gorga summed up his sister Teresa...
Aug 4, 2024


Love
Sheila suggested I watch Love on Netflix, and three seasons and a few days later, I finished it as I’m recovering. The show offers a...
Aug 3, 2024


Judgment
"The only difference between a flower and a weed is judgment" means that the distinction between what we consider beautiful or desirable...
Aug 2, 2024
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