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There’s so much going on in my head every day that it feels unbearable. I can hardly get a restful night’s sleep because my mind just...

Life is a series of moments that shape us, a journey where growth often comes from discomfort, and meaning is found not in what we have,...

Some people in AA start to feel superior, thinking they've beaten their addiction. But they might not realize they've just swapped one...

I had a job interview coming up, and my mom told me to tell them that I’d been taking care of my Gramma as the reason I haven’t worked in...

I just finished both seasons of Kevin Can F *k Himself and really liked it. The way it mixes dark comedy with drama, switching from a...

People struggling with addiction often have a hard time understanding that not everyone shares their experience. They may assume that...

They say everything happens for a reason, but I’ve never quite bought into that idea. To me, it feels like a comforting cliché people use...

Last night, I had two comps for Velour  and was excited to catch up with my friend Kristin, who I hadn’t seen in years. I offered her the...

Today, as I was driving, Kelly Clarkson's "Broken & Beautiful" came on again, and it felt like it was written just for me. The song’s...

I’ve been feeling absolutely awful lately. I’m convinced it’s all connected to my teeth, but it's been more than just the usual pain. I...

Not that this is a good thing, but just like in theater, where the audience only sees what the actors want them to, life’s no different....

The song Cabaret perfectly mirrors my own approach to life—embracing the mess, the chaos, and the imperfection with a big, defiant grin....

Back in the day, posting on Facebook was like sending a message to your entire social circle at once. You’d hit “post,” and within...

I had the absolute thrill of seeing Velour: A Drag Spectacular from the front row, and let me tell you, it did not disappoint. The show...

This morning, I took a trip to Imperial Beach with my mom to check out the sandcastle building event. I guess they’ve scaled it back to...

No matter how hard I try, it feels like I can never win. Somehow, despite my best efforts, I end up as the villain in my own story,...

Today is my sister's birthday, but instead of her usual big bash, she’s keeping it low-key with burgers at a restaurant and an ice cream...

It's hard to believe that 14 years have passed since I got married at the Madonna Inn, descending that swirly staircase to "Over the...

When confronted with the truth, especially about their lies, people—especially narcissists—often react with denial and anger. Their sense...

I recently stumbled upon the concept of stimming, or as I like to call it, “self-stimulatory behavior”—basically, a fancy term for...