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When You Choose to Go No Contact, Be Prepared
When you chose to let go of family be prepared to lose more than just the one person you are walking away from, because there are always...
Mar 15, 2022


Who's on top?
Your family decides when to tell you things that are important. They decide when you are going to meet or not meet. They decide what you...
Mar 14, 2022


Who are you?
The people you love are people you can just be yourself around. If you feel weird, as if you are someone completely different around...
Mar 13, 2022


Art
Art has a way of transcending words, doesn’t it? Through painting, Pablo Picasso was able to defy logic, Salvador Dali was able to defy...
Mar 11, 2022


Failure to Accept Differences
Children who grow up in the same home with the same parents, same discipline, and same guidance do not turn out to be the same exact...
Mar 10, 2022


No Apologies and No Forgiveness
Apologies and forgiveness are the glue that keep a family together. Nobody is perfect. At some point in time you will hurt a member of...
Mar 9, 2022


Gossip
Gossip is very damaging. Most often gossip occurs when someone is upset by something related to the person they are gossiping about. It...
Mar 8, 2022


Insults and Criticism
Words carry weight. In some cases they can carry the weight of the world. When unkind words are said to family, they hurt. Your family is...
Mar 7, 2022


Guilt
You normally don’t spend time around people you don’t like, but with your toxic family member you feel like you have to. This is usually...
Mar 6, 2022


Shut your mouth
If you feel like you have to be very careful about what you say to them because you know they will get upset if you say the wrong thing,...
Mar 5, 2022


Numb
People you love should make you feel alive, not numb. If you don’t feel happy or sad, then that’s a sign that you are just going through...
Mar 4, 2022


On the Road
I felt so much anger and sadness when my dad kicked my dog. I had nowhere else to go, so I decided I would stay in the detached garage of...
Mar 4, 2022


You don't want to see them
Most of us like to see our positive and uplifting family members. If you choose to hardly ever go see someone in your family, then they...
Mar 3, 2022


Who Can You Trust?
Today my step brother forwarded EVERYTHING I had been working on with this website to my Dad. I thought we were close, I thought we were...
Mar 3, 2022


How Toxic People Treat You Is a Reflection of Them, Not You
Time and time again you’ll find yourself trying to understand and rationalize their behavior and then forgiving their actions because…...
Mar 2, 2022


Deception and Lies
Deception in a family is destructive. The truth always prevails. Sometimes it may take years or even a generation for the lies and deceit...
Mar 1, 2022


Drained
People you love should give you energy and make you feel great about yourself. If you find yourself completely exhausted around them,...
Feb 28, 2022


You find yourself taking care of them
Everyone is perfectly capable of taking care of themselves for the majority of the time. If a family member is a constant state of need,...
Feb 27, 2022


Angry
If you feel like your head is about to pop up when you are around your family (and sometimes even when you are not around them) because...
Feb 26, 2022


You Feel Sad And Down Around Them
No matter what you do, they say things that make you feel bad about yourself and your relationship with them. For instance, if you say...
Feb 25, 2022
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