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They use threats, harsh language, or violence
This may seem like the most obvious sign of a toxic relationship, but not if it's always been normalized as part of your family dynamic....
Apr 5, 2022


They play the blame game
A parent, sibling, or other family member may often place blame for anything that’s wrong on someone else—possibly you, included. While...
Apr 3, 2022


A toxic sibling may "side with" your parent
In a well-adjusted family dynamic, there's usually no such thing as "taking sides." But when someone learns poor relationship patterns...
Apr 2, 2022


Beware of repeating toxic patterns with others
You didn’t choose the family you were raised in, but you can make sure you don't invite new toxic influences into your life by assuming...
Apr 1, 2022


They gaslight you
Gaslighting is a type of emotional abuse in which someone causes the victim to doubt their own understanding of reality. “They deny that...
Mar 31, 2022


They’re a master of passive-aggressive behavior
This can include guilt trips and backhanded compliments, along with nonverbal communication such as rolled eyes and sighs. #toxicfamily...
Mar 30, 2022


They make your business everyone’s business
Enter your mother, who's spilled your tale with someone else. It’s not uncommon for a toxic family member to breach your confidence....
Mar 29, 2022


The Dangers of Loneliness
Friendship is a lot like food. We need it to survive. What is more, we seem to have a basic drive for it. Psychologists find that human...
Mar 28, 2022


Realization
Coming to the realization that your family member is not available or open to fully and completely loving you and discovering the fact...
Mar 26, 2022


They make cruelly critical remarks
No one's known you longer than your family has, which means they've got a rich back catalog of personal failures to draw from when...
Mar 25, 2022


Don’t Waste Your Time Trying to Understand the “Why”
I myself cannot comprehend a toxic parent’s intentional manipulation, lying and inflicting pain upon their own child. Trust me when I say...
Mar 24, 2022


Emotional and verbal abuse should never be tolerated.
If someone if emotionally manipulating, bullying and abusing you, know that you deserve better and that it’s OK to let go and walk away...
Mar 23, 2022


They make you feel bad about feeling bad
It can be extremely painful when you’re trying to share your hurt over a grievance—or even abuse, enacted by them or another family...
Mar 21, 2022


They sow conflict with other family members
Unhealthy parents will pit their children against one another, or against other members of the family. They set up scenarios where...
Mar 20, 2022


Manipulation
#toxicfamily #toxicrelationships #toxicpeople #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #toxicparents #narcissism #gaslighting #mentalhealth...
Mar 20, 2022


Toxic People Aren’t Fixable, Don’t Waste Your Time Trying
That statement may sound harsh, but it’s the truth. The way toxic people act is because of an internal struggle they bear inside of...
Mar 19, 2022


When I confronted my father
“Confront” may be a harsh word, but I could paint this in a cooler color: have an honest conversation. Either way, that doesn’t work with...
Mar 18, 2022


When you confront a toxic person, expect the worst
You’ll see that they are quite manipulative in their reaction to being confronted. A family member will play the victim and try to corral...
Mar 17, 2022


Not Anger
I feel it is important to note, from my experience, true anger is not necessarily associated with mental illness, but rather comes from a...
Mar 16, 2022


When You Choose to Go No Contact, Be Prepared
When you chose to let go of family be prepared to lose more than just the one person you are walking away from, because there are always...
Mar 15, 2022
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