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Flaw
I kept “becoming better” – until I realized that it was all in vain. You’d always somehow find a flaw in me and I’d never be good enough...
Apr 24, 2022


Finally, I'm Sorry
I know I seem like a jerk right now. Sometimes I feel like a jerk. But, when I stop and think about it – what have I done to you? What...
Apr 23, 2022


Letter
At first, I was going to write a suicide letter. But then I remember I'm not the only one who is going to die, everybody will. I'm not...
Apr 22, 2022


Smear Campaign
If a child is able to break away from their narcissistic mother after realizing how sick she really is, the mother will often respond...
Apr 21, 2022


Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse
The narcissistic cycle of abuse is the style of emotional abuse a narcissistic mother heaps on her hapless children. It begins with...
Apr 19, 2022


Emotional Blackmail
By using emotional blackmail, a narcissistic mother is able to keep her children on edge all the time. She uses emotional blackmail to...
Apr 18, 2022


Choosing Favorites
Narcissistic mothers are also known for choosing favorites among their children. One child is the golden child and the other is the black...
Apr 18, 2022


Payback’s a Mother
When you contradict a narcissist, they don’t just want to prove they’re correct, they want to absolutely crush you. If they view you as...
Apr 17, 2022


The Infamous Guilt Trip
Narcissistic mothers are famous for their ability to inflict a guilt trip on everyone in their life. Because narcissists have unrealistic...
Apr 16, 2022


Blame-Shifting
This is another favorite tool of the narcissist. Your narcissistic mother will never take responsibility for her actions. Instead, she...
Apr 15, 2022


Triangulation
Triangulation is one of the most damaging narcissistic tactics because it pits family members against one another. Narcissistic parents...
Apr 14, 2022


Lying
Lying is another tactic your narcissistic mother will use as part of her emotional abuse. She will lie to anyone in your life as a matter...
Apr 13, 2022


More on Gaslighting
Gaslighting is the most common tactic that a narcissist uses to abuse you. It involves telling you that your perception of reality is...
Apr 12, 2022


Invalidating Your Feelings
Your narcissistic mother has no appreciation or regard for your feelings or for anything you might do for her. She simply judges,...
Apr 11, 2022


Drama and More Drama
Narcissist thrive on excitement and drama, and they love creating drama and watching how everyone around them responds. It makes them...
Apr 10, 2022


Subtle, Insidious Denial
Not all abuse is explosive and obvious. In fact, some of the most damaging abuse is the kind that is not all that obvious. It eats away...
Apr 9, 2022


Continue
Sometimes I don’t know how I continue To live, to love, and to laugh too… I don’t know how I got this far, I don’t know if I’ll get...
Apr 8, 2022


Withdraw yourself
I had to step away from the relationships – at least for a while. What is most important to realize is that I was not to blame for the...
Apr 7, 2022


Trust
Coming to the realization that your family member is not available or open to fully and completely loving you and discovering the fact...
Apr 6, 2022


They move the goal posts
Manipulative people often shift the criteria that people have to meet in order to satisfy them. It’s very uncomfortable, because just...
Apr 5, 2022
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